Prayer. We like to think that we believe in prayer. Especially those of us who are either religious or outright Christian. We ask our friends for prayer, we offer prayer whenever someone is in need or hurting. And just the promise of prayer makes us feel better. Then there are those times when we think that prayer is just an exercise in futility. We ask, “Is there really a God?” or “does God even care about my requests?” because it seems that there is little or no answer to our prayers.

Here is my take on prayer: God answers prayer. Even in those times when the answers don’t seem to be as forthcoming as we would like. Our first reaction is to say that God is not answering our prayers. However, God is in the prayer-answering business. The fact that the outcome of our prayer is not as we would desire does not indicate non-answer. On the contrary, it often says more about either our prayer or our relationship.

Whenever the outcome of our prayer is not what we expect or what we want, perhaps it would behoove us to examine the prayer itself. Certainly, what I asked for was a good thing—such as the health of a friend, or a better situation for my family. Even so, the point to prayer is that it is seeking the good and perfect will of God, not what I think is the best or right thing. Therefore, it may from time to time mean that what I think is the right thing for me or my situation may need some divine adjustment.

For my prayer to be perfect, it must be in line with God and His desire. God’s answer to my prayer will always reflect His will and way—even when I think He is holding out on His answer to me.

 “You ask and don’t receive because you ask with wrong motives.” –James 4:3a


Mountains. Don’t you love them? The fresh, crisp air. The trails to hike on. Snow in July (if you get to a high enough elevation). Just thinking about it invigorates me. I believe that for me the perfect vacation would be about two weeks hiking and camping in the mountains. Far away from the hustle and bustle of responsibility. Out there where there are no deadlines and no phone lines—not even any bars.

So, what can a person do when the mountain is far away and the press of daily living is so close? My personal choice is to spend some of those mountain moments every day. Bible and devotion book in hand, I meet with the Master for a few minutes each day. I’m still working (after almost fifty years of personal faith) on what this daily time looks like. And I’m also working on developing the good habit of journaling. It means adding a blank book and pen to what I carry with me (but I do take them with me to visit the actual mountains—you never know when inspiration might strike) so that I can write down my thoughts, my prayers, the impressions I get from God in my reading and quietness.

Whatever it takes, figure out your mountain, and find the time to visit as often as you can.

Meanwhile, Moses was shepherding the flock of his father-in-law Jethro, the priest of Midian. He led the flock to the far side of the wilderness and came to Horeb, the mountain of God. —Exodus 3:1

I strive to be a man of prayer. Without question, I hold the practice of prayer in high regard and with good reason. The Savior that I serve placed a high premium on prayer. Early in His public life, the Gospels report that Jesus’ disciples knew He spent time in prayer. When they were looking for Jesus one morning, they found Him in a place where they knew he went regularly for prayer (see Mark 1:35-39).

In this modern age in which we live it is sometimes seen as poor form to be a person of prayer. Some people have gone to requesting or offering “positive thoughts” instead of prayer so as not to offend or be offensive. I still offer to pray.  I do this for a couple of reasons: first, I am a person who puts great stock in prayer, and also, I expect God to answer my petitions.

I also remember that Jesus expected answers to His prayers as well. He did not assert that only prayers answered in the way He desired were answered prayers though. Consider His last night in the Garden of Gethsemane. Jesus’ earnest request was that the cup He faced (namely, paying the penalty for sins He had not committed in order for mankind to find salvation) be accomplished in another manner. He accepted, though, that the Father’s will might overturn Jesus’ own desires.

So, if you have a need that you make known to me I will make it a matter of prayer. I will rejoice with you if the answer matches our desires. I will cry with you when the answer is “no.” And I will persist with you when the answer is “not now.” Prayer is a powerful thing—if we do not get what we want, God can use our communication to change what we want.

“The effectual fervent prayer of a righteous man availeth much  —James 5:16b

Last week, as our church (along with numerous churches around the country) conducted business as usual, carrying on our regular Sunday morning worship services, one of our sister churches was attacked by an armed man intent on disrupting and destroying lives. This is not the first time such a tragedy has occurred in recent days. Not long ago, a church outside of Nashville, TN was visited by a gunman, before that is the record of a Wednesday prayer meeting in North Carolina attended by and then shot up; only eight years ago, a beloved Baptist pastor in our own state was murdered in his pulpit, and the list goes on.

“What can I do?” is the question that hounds those of us who watch the terror unfold in our country.

Other atrocities also face our modern society: human trafficking, domestic abuse, and abortion to name a few.

“What can I do?” we repeat again, because we feel alone and overwhelmed. “I am just one man/woman.” We reason.

And today, a day that has been designated as a day to bring light to the needs of thousands of orphaned children around the world, we continue to cry out, “What can I do?”

Perhaps I can suggest that we start on our knees, praying for the kinds of needs mentioned, but don’t let us assume that this is adequate. Continue to pray, after praying for the comfort and healing of those affected by these tragedies, and ask God to open your eyes, my eyes, to a tangible response that I, you, we can do to address the hurt, the need. Then having pray, do what God has opened your eyes to.

Learn to do good; seek justice, correct oppression; bring justice to the fatherless, plead the widow’s cause.—Isaiah 1:17

As you read these words, my family and I will be in the big middle of our life-changing trip to Vietnam. By this time, barring any hiccups along the way, we will have taken custody of our Esther Noelle, and be finalizing all the details to bring her to her new home, AMERICA!

For many who are reading this Vietnam is a blip on the history channel, a bad memory of a rough time, or the source of some pretty amazing Asian cuisine. I would like to share with you some spiritual points that you can use to make this small corner of the world a part of your daily prayer cycle:

The country is increasingly opening up as economic progress continues. Most of the population was born after the Vietnam War and are more interested in capital gain and the outside world than Communist propaganda. They are proving responsive to the gospel – for reasons good and bad. At the same time, newfound prosperity has opened the door to rampant materialism and other competing ideologies. Pray that the Truth might be clearly and effectively proclaimed, particularly among the growing masses of young professionals.

All open Protestant missionary work ceased in 1975. CMA had laboured for 64 years (for 50 years as the only Protestant mission). Other agencies arrived in the 1950s, notably WEC, IMB, and UWM. In 1974 there were 280 missionaries in South Vietnam from about 20 organizations. Those years of sowing are today reaping an abundant harvest. Current economic development gives opportunity for Christians in business as well as for English teachers. Christian NGOs who propose legitimate aid projects are increasingly invited to work here. Literally hundreds of organizations from both Asia and the West now claim some kind of work in Vietnam. Many of these organizations work in deliberate partnership together. Pray that Vietnam may become fully open to Christian workers, and that many committed and prepared workers may respond. (from Operation World)

At the Name of Jesus every knee shall bow, in heaven and on earth and under the earth.”  — Philippians 2:10

In recent months, I have heard of and/or counseled with friends (fellow pastors) who have faced discouragement, firings, or left the ministry altogether because of struggles with discord in their church, personal burn-out, or any variety of other issues. As I look back over these months, I think of how stressful and difficult it is to be a local church leader in our day and age.

In a time when it is more fashionable to let church commitment be a matter of convenience rather than conviction; when members are looking for all manner of reasons to excuse their lax attitudes; when society at large has all but turned her back on the church (making decisions to make church a preference rather than a persistence all the easier), it is no wonder that those who are called to spend their lives and their livelihood in God’s service are feeling crushed to the point of abandonment.

In such a time as this, it is more important than ever for us to rally together to lift up our leaders in prayer. Pray for lay leaders who volunteer their time to prepare and guide Bible study lessons on a weekly basis. Pray for others who fill important places of leadership within the local congregation. Pray for staff members who have given their lives to a calling (whether they serve in volunteer, part-time, or career-level capacity). Pray for all the spiritual leaders that you can think of for protection from the battles they face. Particularly pray for your pastor (and other local pastors) who feel the pull away from their calling often.

Therefore, pray to the Lord of the harvest to send out workers into His harvest.”  —Jesus, Matthew 9:38

Something there is that is intimate about a walk. Especially if that walk is with someone meaningful. Early in the last century, if a young man and woman were beginning to see one another exclusively with the eye to possible matrimony, they might say to their friends that they were “walking out” with that special someone. From time to time, when a person wanted to discuss something without the prying ears of an audience present they might ask the friend to “take a walk with me.”

When you take a walk with a person, there is a certain level of privacy achieved even though you may be in the great outdoors. Conversations can be deep and meaningful in which the participants can truly get to know one another. We can learn each other’s thoughts, emotions, and heartbeats. In the case of young sweethearts, there is the opportunity to walk hand in hand and truly feel the presence of the other. In the case of close friends, there is the opportunity to grow closer and even participate in private, unhindered conversation.

This is what it is to walk with Jesus; to sense His presence as we pass through life, to converse with Him in the heartfelt conversation of prayer. This is the desire of the heart of every person: to walk with the Maker, conversing and communing with Him at the most intimate of levels. It was for this kind of walk that we are created. It is toward this kind of relationship that we are constantly running. It is only in this kind of relationship with Jesus that we can find completeness.

Set aside some time to walk with Jesus this week. Walk with Him. Talk with Him. Let His presence in your daily routine refresh you, mind and spirit. It is what you seek. It is what He desires.

“Then the man and his wife heard the sound of the Lord God walking in the garden at the time of the evening breeze”  —Genesis 3:8a

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